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I've spent over $150,000 on my appearance to help my career. I don't regret a dollar of it.

25 October 2026 at 09:05
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Danielle Fewings before and after receiving Sculptra and cheek filler.

Courtesy of Danielle Fewings

  • Danielle Fewings, founder of Get Clear Beauty, has invested in cosmetic treatments since she was 27.
  • Fewings' journey with aesthetic procedures began with a breast reduction and includes Botox and filler.
  • Her $150,000 investment in herself has supported both personal confidence and professional success.

This as-told-to essay is based on a conversation with Danielle Fewings, a 40-year-old entrepreneur from New York City. The following has been edited for length and clarity.

I started my career in digital marketing and ran my own agency from 2020 until 2025, when I sold it. I'm now the founder of Get Clear Beauty, an aesthetic treatment marketplace, which I started in 2026.

I've always felt like there was something missing from my appearance, as if someone much more confident was buried beneath it all. I got my first procedure done in 2013 and have had many since.

I don't regret any of them.

I'm the most treatment‑forward person in almost every room I'm in

In my broader New York circle, routine maintenance is completely normal. People are getting Botox and lip filler, and a few have had breast augmentations. Most are dipping in rather than going all in.

I'm honestly the most treatment-forward person in almost every room I'm in. In any given conversation, I'm the one who's had the most work done, which is a little wild when I think about it.

For most of the people I know, the max is Botox. Routine maintenance is common around me, but no one I'm close to has done anywhere near as much as I have.

My first major decision was my breast reduction at 27

I wore a 32G and desperately wanted them smaller. I call this my gateway surgery because it was honestly a very easy recovery, so I had this ease as the template, which gave me the confidence to keep pursuing additional treatments.

It made me more willing to put myself out there, both in dating and especially in showing up online to create content for my business, which matters enormously when you're building something. It shifted how I approach relationships, too, both friendships and romantic ones.

When you feel confident inside and out, you see yourself as more valuable, recognize your worth, and become more selective about who you let into your life. As I've felt better about myself, I've been more intentional about the relationships I keep close, and I see a direct correlation between the two.

I've never made decisions due to outside pressure

My choices have always been personal. I've never done any of this for another person or because of outside pressure. It has always been about putting my best self forward, and if that takes some tweaks and some money, I'm willing to do it.

I'm a very confident person — I just haven't accepted every imperfection. My upper blepharoplasty is a good example: most people would say I didn't need it, and they would be right, because no one needs any of these things. I wanted it. My eyelids felt heavy, and I chose to change that.

I'm fully committed to antiaging and the maintenance it requires. I go to my quarterly Botox appointments and my annual lip filler appointments, and I'll be ready for a facelift when that time comes. The idea that aging gracefully means avoiding treatments is absurd; aging gracefully is doing whatever feels good to you as an individual.

The cost breakdown

Because my first breast surgery was a reduction, I paid $6,000 out of pocket, and my insurance covered the rest. I had a full-body makeover in the Dominican Republic, which included a tummy tuck, skin tightening, and two further breast surgeries after major weight loss, costing around $12,000. I've also had liposuction, scar revision, an upper blepharoplasty, Sculptra and filler, a Morpheus8 treatment on my legs, tattoo removal, lip blushing, microblading and shading, Invisalign, and teeth whitening. These procedures have cost about $50,000 in total.

The maintenance I keep up with regularly includes manicures and pedicures, which I have gotten every two weeks for the past 10 years; lash extensions, which I have gotten every three weeks for about 15 years; Botox; more filler; peels and lasers; tanning; and haircuts. The recurring maintenance has cost about $105,000 over time.

What struck me is that the one-time procedures come to about $50,000, but the quiet, recurring maintenance is over $100,000. The costs nobody tracks are the ones that add up the most. That is exactly why I built Get Clear Beauty.

Each procedure served a purpose

My whole philosophy has been doing high-maintenance things to stay low-maintenance. The lashes, manicures and pedicures, lip blushing, and microblading are all upkeep that let me feel put-together with minimal effort, and because of them, I barely wear makeup, so some of that cost is a trade-off.

The bigger procedures came from real changes in my body. My weight has gone up and down for years, and that has driven a lot of it. The Morpheus8 on my legs was for skin laxity, because I'm not ready for a leg lift and probably don't need one. I've had three breast surgeries total.

I'd never do CoolSculpting, and I'd never have a nose job. I don't think CoolSculpting is cost-effective, and I've grown to love my nose.

My appearance impacts confidence, and confidence impacts business

When you're on 15 Zooms a week and constantly recording content to win business, looking and feeling your best matters.

Appearance affects business outcomes, but for me, it works through confidence. When I feel good about how I'm showing up, I represent my company more powerfully and carry my knowledge into the room in a way that lands.

I love how I look. 10 years ago, I never thought looking this way was achievable, and it's the result of a GLP-1 medication, surgeries, and really taking my appearance by the horns. I'm in a genuinely happy place with it.

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I booked a one-way ticket to Bali after a layoff in fintech. I stayed in Asia for over a year — here's where my money stretched the furthest.

23 October 2026 at 10:05
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Tiffany Tang.

Courtesy of Tiffany Tang

  • Tiffany Tang founded DrinkFolks after a transformative journey across Asia in 2023 and 2024.
  • Tang's layoff in 2023 led her to Bali, where she decided to extend her 30-day trip to over a year.
  • DrinkFolks, inspired by Tang's travels, supports women-led farms and brings jamu to the US market.

This as-told-to essay is based on a conversation with Tiffany Tang, the 30-year-old founder of DrinkFolks. It has been edited for length and clarity.

I'm the founder and CEO of DrinkFolks, which brings jamu, a 1,300-year-old Indonesian herbal remedy, to the US as a prebiotic root tonic.

For the first two years of my career, I was an assistant director at a gallery owned by the first female fine arts dealer in America. From 2017 to 2021, I worked at Christie's International Real Estate in marketing and communications roles.

For the next year, I was a senior communications manager at CSM Sport & Entertainment before taking on a similar role at a fintech company that helped millions of Americans sustainably build their credit scores through rewards.

I felt positively about that job, but I was laid off in May 2023

I was grateful to work there. We were doing big things, and I really learned what it was like to be at a mission-driven company.

The most interesting thing about my layoff was how incredibly calm I felt upon hearing the news. Our CMO told me first, and she was a friend, my college professor, and an executive I admire and respect.

When she told me, I said I didn't blame her, and this was a time for a reset. Turns out, the layoff was the best thing that could've ever happened to me.

A few weeks after my layoff, I booked a one-way ticket to Bali

For a long time, my self-worth was my net worth — my title, my salary, my career trajectory. When the layoff hit, I lost my sense of self. Reflecting afterward, all I could think was: who am I without the high-paying job?

A few weeks earlier, I had watched the movie "Eat, Pray, Love." When the layoff came, something in me said that this was my moment. I opened Kayak, found a one-way ticket to Bali for around $1,000, and booked it. Bali felt approachable and warm.

What was supposed to be a 30-day reset changed the course of my life

I originally planned to travel in Southeast Asia for a month but ended up staying from June 2023 through August 2024.

My awakening happened on day three. One of the first things I did in Bali was a Panchakarma, a full-body Ayurvedic detox at a retreat in Ubud. There was an optional silent day; one of the first times in my life I rooted and looked inward.

Sitting with my journal, I knew I had to stay. I was still negotiating my severance, so I did the math: my savings, my investments, what each month would cost. When my severance came through a few weeks later, it jump-started the journey.

The deeper turning point was Hong Kong

Everyone I met understood me on an indescribable level. It was the only time in my life I was speaking Cantonese to people outside my family, reconnecting with my heritage. By the time I came home for the holidays, I had decided: I was moving to Asia.

The spark for the company was the women I met. Across Indonesia and Southeast Asia, I sat with women quietly building something of their own. I wanted to help these women build generational wealth for their families. I built DrinkFolks as a way to sustainably invest in them — 3% of every sale goes to women-led farms and nonprofits across Southeast Asia through our FolksFund — while supporting health stateside by bringing ancient wisdom into people's homes.

I started the company in January 2024, took every jamu class I could find in Bali, visited the source of jamu in Yogyakarta, and reformulated recipes in my Hong Kong kitchen.

By October 2024, I was back in the US, working with California food scientists to scale up my home-tested recipe. We launched in NYC in October 2025. Today, we're in 70+ stores across the US.

Living in Southeast Asia made the math work

My salary before the layoff was $160,000 a year, plus equity. When I set off, I had roughly $14,000 between savings and severance — my spreadsheet calculated 4.6 months of runway — and I felt comfortable investing that in myself.

I budgeted like it was my job. I tracked my actual spending obsessively for the first four and a half months and came in at roughly $7,700 total.

All-in, I averaged about $1,300 to $2,300 a month, including flights, lodging, food, everything. My money stretched furthest in Cambodia and least in Hong Kong, which was financially similar to New York City. For comparison: my overhead, including my mortgage, maintenance, electricity, and WiFi in New York today is about $2,500 a month.

In terms of cost of living comparisons, here's my breakdown

Healthcare was the biggest surprise, in the best way. I got into a motorcycle accident on the Pakse Loop in Laos, and seven stitches cost me around seven dollars, including painkillers and a week of antibiotics.

Cambodia was the best value. It's the most adventurous, outdoorsy country I visited, and I didn't want to explore alone, so I stayed in hostels for as little as $6 a night — partly a budget move, mostly a way to meet people. It's also where I met my first fellow Americans of the entire trip.

Hong Kong was the opposite — groceries and eating out gave me real sticker shock. I softened it with a genuine energy exchange: I moved in with a college friend and threw dinner parties several times a week, cooking meals for them in exchange for a place to stay. It was worth every dollar — I met some of my truest friends and future business partners there.

The layoff was honestly the best thing that ever happened to me

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Tang's first time seeing DrinkFolks on shelves in LA.

Courtesy of Tiffany Tang

It gave me the confidence to build DrinkFolks, a better sense of my heritage, and a version of myself I'm proud of. I've learned to never say never, but right now, I'm exactly where I'm supposed to be.

My advice is to use your layoff as your launchpad. Things happen for you, not in spite of you. If you have even the slightest chance to live in that moment for yourself — for me, that was travel — take it as a gift and a blessing, not a crisis to survive.

Treat budgeting as freedom, not constraint. My money stretched so much further than I imagined. Clear parameters gave me the space to figure out who I am outside my job.

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F1: brasileiro Rafael Câmara é piloto da Haas em 2027 – team confirmou

15 October 2026 at 19:24

Agora é oficial: o brasileiro Rafael Câmara vai correr na Fórmula 1 na temporada 2027. O anúncio foi feito pela Haas esta quinta-feira (15), de que o piloto no próximo ano assumirá a vaga deixada por Esteban Ocon.

Os rumores da chegada do piloto começaram a surgir ainda no meio deste campeonato, como refere a F1Mania na sua notícia, lembrando que Rafael Câmara é membro da Academia da Ferrari desde 2021, chegou a participar de diversos testes guiando carros tanto da escuderia italiana como da equipa americana, sempre impressionando com os seus resultados – inclusivamente, a primeira atividade que teve com a Haas foi um TPC em Portimão no mês de agosto.

Até ser designado para preencher a vaga na Haas, Rafa ainda precisou enfrentar alguma concorrência, designadamente contra Leo Fornaroli, atual campeão da Fórmula 2, Jack Doohan e Ryo Hirakawa. Mas, no final, o campeão de 2025 da Fórmula 3 e atual líder da Fórmula 2 é quem está a vencer esta ‘corrida’ pelo lugar no team na F1.

“Estou muito feliz em me juntar à Haas como piloto de Fórmula 1. É um passo importante na minha carreira e quero agradecer a Gene Haas e Ayao Komatsu pela confiança que depositaram em mim. Também sou muito grato à Academia da Ferrari pelo apoio e por tudo o que contribuíram para o meu desenvolvimento ao longo dos anos, assim como à minha família por estar sempre presente nesta jornada”, disse Rafael Câmara.

“Agora, o meu foco é preparar-me da melhor maneira possível para este novo desafio. Haverá muito a aprender, e estou ansioso para trabalhar em estreita colaboração com a equipa, entender o carro e continuar evoluindo como piloto”, prosseguiu.

Lembra-nos a F1Mania que Rafa Câmara disputa a F2 na temporada 2026 e na última etapa, a rodada tripla do GP do Azerbaijão, onde conseguiu uma vitória e assumiu a liderança da classificação – tem mais duas vitórias e sete pódios totais . Agora restam duas etapas, Qatar e Abu Dhabi, mas ainda em dúvida se irão mesmo acontecer devido à guerra no Médio Oriente.

Entre os feitos de sua carreira, além do título da F3 também conta como campeão da Fórmula Regional Europeia em 2024, além de um vice na Fórmula 4 dos Emirados Árabes Unidos em 2022, assim como ter terminado em terceiro na Fórmula 4 Italiana, Fórmula 4 Alemã e Fórmula Regional do M´deio Oriente.

Ayao Komatsu, chefe da Haas, afirmou que “estou muito empolgado em contratar um talento tão jovem e incrível como Rafael Câmara. Não preciso falar a todos sobre as suas conquistas nas categorias de base; elas têm sido impressionantes. Além disso, na sua temporada de estreia na Fórmula 2, a velocidade que ele demonstrou em momentos muito difíceis, como nas classificações no Mónaco e Montreal, evidenciam todo o potencial que o Rafa possui.”

“Quando ele pilotou, no nosso programa TPC em Portugal, mostrou que conseguia lidar muito bem com a situação, mesmo sem muito tempo para conhecer o carro; ele mostrou-nos mais do que apenas velocidade pura. O Rafa conseguiu criar um ambiente para extrair o melhor de si mesmo; foi algo muito impressionante e, certamente, as voltas que ele completou foram especiais.“

A teminar, Ayao Komatsu, salientou: “Estamos todos animados com essa oportunidade e realmente comprometidos, como TGR Haas F1 Team, em desenvolver esse talento e oferecer um ambiente onde ele possa prosperar. Queremos criar um espaço onde ele se sinta confortável e apoiado, e onde possa realmente desenvolver todo o seu potencial.”

Por fim, Gene Haas, dono da Haas, comentou: “Estou ansioso para ver o que Rafael Câmara pode alcançar na Fórmula 1, tendo acompanhado as suas conquistas na Fórmula 3 e, agora, na Fórmula 2 este ano.”
“É um desafio diferente neste nível, mas, com base na experiência que tivemos com Ollie Bearman, que seguiu uma trajetória semelhante e também veio da Academia da Ferrari, sabemos que esses pilotos mais jovens que chegam bem preparados e podem causar um impacto imediato na equipa”, acrescentou.

Rafael Câmara é anunciado pela Haas e Brasil terá dois pilotos na F1 em 2027

15 October 2026 at 16:54

O brasileiro Rafael Câmara foi anunciado nesta quinta-feira (15) como piloto titular da Haas para a temporada 2027 da Fórmula 1. O pernambucano de 21 anos ocupará a vaga do francês Esteban Ocon e dividirá a equipe com o britânico Oliver Bearman.

Natural do Recife, Câmara será o primeiro piloto nascido no Nordeste a disputar a principal categoria do automobilismo mundial. A contratação coroa uma trajetória de destaque nas categorias de formação, com títulos na Fórmula Regional Europeia, em 2024, e na Fórmula 3, em 2025.

O brasileiro também faz parte da Academia de Pilotos da Ferrari desde 2021. Nesta temporada, ele disputa a Fórmula 2 pela Invicta Racing e lidera o campeonato.

Após o anúncio, Câmara afirmou que pretende manter o ritmo de trabalho e se preparar para o desafio na categoria. O piloto também destacou o desejo de representar o país e conquistar bons resultados em sua estreia.

“Vou continuar trabalhando, como sempre vim trabalhando, evoluindo. Se Deus quiser, vou fazer um bom ano no ano que vem e trazer bastante orgulho para o Brasil e todo mundo que estiver acompanhando”, declarou.

Sobre a adaptação à nova equipe, o brasileiro disse que pretende se preparar da melhor maneira possível, aprender sobre o carro e trabalhar em conjunto com os integrantes da Haas.

Brasil terá dois pilotos no grid

A chegada de Câmara fará com que o Brasil volte a ter dois pilotos titulares na Fórmula 1. Ele se juntará a Gabriel Bortoleto, da Audi, e encerrará um intervalo de 11 anos desde a última temporada em que o país contou com dois representantes na categoria.

Em 2016, Felipe Massa corria pela Williams, enquanto Felipe Nasr defendia a Sauber. Desde então, o Brasil passou por períodos sem pilotos titulares, embora Pietro Fittipaldi tenha disputado duas provas pela Haas em 2020.

Câmara será o 34º brasileiro a competir na Fórmula 1. O pioneiro foi Chico Landi, que estreou em 1951.

O país não conquista o título mundial de pilotos desde 1991, quando Ayrton Senna venceu pela terceira vez, pela McLaren. A nova geração brasileira busca recolocar o país entre os protagonistas da categoria.

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